10 NO-HOLDS-BARRED CHAPTERS THAT TELL YOU THE TRUTH ...
The truth is, when we’re smitten, it’s the magic - the expectation - we’re after... And once we’ve found it, or think we have, we won’t let anything get in its way. Not even reality.
It is not to be assumed that because people say they love each other, they also respect each other. Conversely, the same is true.
In a relationship, the other person also has deal breakers and feels strongly about them, too. The trick is trying to figure out—independently of each other and together - which are absolutes, and which are pliable enough to be open to negotiation.
LOOK GOOD, AND BE GOOD LOOKING:
When it comes to courtship, bonding and mating, it’s all about strutting your stuff. It’s your very own advertising campaign.
You may be a good prospect or partner in just about every way for someone, but money-wise, will you be an asset or liability in the relationship? Can you be trusted to make good judgments about money, or are you a financial time bomb looking for somewhere to explode?
THAT LOVING FEELING:
There is no reason to settle for a relationship or marriage that sentences you to a life of love deprivation. And there is no shame in admitting that loving and being loved are extremely important to you.
WHEN LOVE HURTS:
If any person in a relationship or marriage is not feeling good about it, then the situation cannot be considered a desirable one to be in or stay in.
A FINE ROMANCE:
It’s not about how much you love me, but how much I love you. This is the essence of ro-mance.
BEING SEXUAL IS HEALING:
Novices go the fast-food route, wanting everything right now; connoisseurs appre-ciate the complexity of a meal and slow down to savor its various flavors.
Why do people cheat? I have a simple, straightforward answer: People cheat because they want to.
… PLUS, "LOVEWORK" FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER!